Femdom Ball Etiquette
Rules and Guidelines for an Elegant Event
High Protocol and Elegance
Understanding the Rules and Traditions
At Femdom Ball, we take pride in upholding high standards of conduct and protocol. Learn about our dress code and guidelines for slaves to ensure an elegant and respectful event.
Photography Policy
Photography at Femdom Ball is strictly regulated to ensure privacy and discretion. Selfies and personal photos are only permitted in designated areas near our sponsors’ banners. Official event photographers will also be available. Sharing event photos on social media outside these guidelines is prohibited to protect attendees’ anonymity. Violators risk expulsion and future event bans.
The Vision Behind London’s Most Prestigious Femdom Event
Dress Code Guidelines
The dress code at Femdom Ball is a crucial aspect of maintaining the event’s elegance and atmosphere. Please adhere to these guidelines to ensure your entrance.
Dress with Authority
Mistresses shine in gowns, latex, or leather, embodying power and elegance.
Discretion Above All
Masks, hoods, and strict privacy rules safeguard anonymity at the Ball.
Protocol & Respect
Every gesture matters: follow etiquette, honor Mistresses, and elevate the night.
Appearance & Devotion of Slaves
Slaves are integral to the atmosphere of Femdom Ball. Their appearance reflects loyalty and respect: impeccable grooming, proper attire, and readiness to serve. Hoods, collars, and leads may be required, symbolizing obedience and devotion to Female Domination. By following your Mistress’s guidance, you embody authenticity, elegance, and the true spirit of submission.
Dress to Dominate: The Femdom Ball Attire
Mistresses are invited to embody the spirit of Female Supremacy through their attire. Ball gowns, latex, leather, corsets, and refined fetish wear set the tone for this grand gala — the pinnacle of British high society and the crème de la crème of the Femdom community.
Your outfit is your canvas: exude power, confidence, and allure, captivating all in attendance with your presence.
For ladies seeking flawless preparation, our partners at Harness & Mane offer all ticket holders an exclusive 20% discount on hair and makeup services. This offer can be redeemed anytime before the Ball — no need to wait until October.
Discount Code: FEMDOM BALL
The Essential Role of Submissives
Slave Information
Submissives attending Femdom Ball play an indispensable and integral role in enriching the overall experience of the event.
They serve as a vital component in creating the unique atmosphere of Female Domination, adding depth and authenticity to the gathering. As a submissive, it is of paramount importance to immerse yourself in the event’s ambiance and fully embrace your role.
Take the time to thoroughly familiarize yourself with the expectations and protocols set for slaves, as they are designed to ensure a harmonious and respectful environment.
By doing so, you not only contribute to the authenticity of the Femdom Ball but also create an unforgettable experience for all attendees.
Hooded Slaves
Collars and Leads
Respectful Conduct
No Furniture Sitting
Drink Restrictions
Event Safe Word
Reserve Your Place at the Femdom Ball
Elegance begins with preparation. Secure your ticket now and step into a night of power, protocol, and unforgettable Female Supremacy.
Answers to Your Most Common Questions
Femdom Ball Etiquette FAQ
Explore our frequently asked questions to better understand the rules, dress code, and protocols of Femdom Ball. This guide ensures every guest — Mistress or slave — arrives fully prepared for an elegant, respectful, and unforgettable evening.
What is the Schedule?
Femdom Ball Meet & Greet
- 2th October
- 6pm
- Secret location; address disclosed to ticket holders.
- Dresscode: Casual, Classic
Femdom Ball High Tea
- 3th October
- 4pm Sharp
- Disclosed to ticket holders 24 hours before the event.
- Dresscode: Chic, Dressed to Impress, Hats, Gloves, Furs
Kinky Shopping
- 3th October
- 6:30pm
- At Charmskool Shop - Everyone welcome
- Dresscode: Casual Chic
Femdom Ball Gala
- 4th October
- 6pm sharp
- Doors close 7.15pm
- Disclosed to ticket holders 24 hours before the event.
- Dresscode: Ball Gowns, Black Tie
Femdom Ball After Party
- 4th October (Details to be Confirmed)
- 11pm till LATE
- Feel free to change your clothes and bring your BDSM toys.
- Disclosed to ticket holders 24 hours before the event.
- Dresscode: Fetish Attire
Secret Event
- 5th October (Details to be Confirmed)
- Disclosed to ticket holders 24 hours before the event.
Where can i buy a ball gown or a suit ??
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I am unable to attend anymore. Is it possible to receive a refund?
Unfortunately, refunds are not available for the Femdom Ball and after party in the event of cancellations. This is because catering services are secured once all tickets are purchased. However, you have the option to sell your ticket on Twitter. There are often people interested in purchasing them.
What is the Femdom Ball Weekend Program ?
The FemDom Ball weekend will take place 2025 Octobre 2-4th.
2nd Oct – Meet & Greet: CLICK HERE
3rd Oct – The FemDom High Tea
4th Oct – The FemDom Ball & After Party
What is the address of Femdom Ball Venue?
For reasons of security the address will be sent within 24 hours of the start of the Ball.
You will only receive the venue address if you are signed up for our mailing list and have a valid ticket!
Sign up for the mailing list here. CLICK HERE Once you have submitted your email, you’ll receive a verification e-mail that contains a link which you need to visit in order to confirm your subscription. You must complete this step in order to be added to the mailing list.
Check your email and your SPAM if you have not received an
email with the details within 24 hours notice of the Ball
Where is the Femdom Ball taking place?
The Femdom Ball is taking place in a top secret and very glamorous location at the heart of the City of London. If you are travelling from afar and are looking to book a hotel or Airbnb, anywhere within the EC2 postcode will be within walking distance from the venue.
At what time does the Femdom Ball begin?
The event begins at 6pm sharp. We ask our patrons to arrive 20-15 minutes early in order to ensure that everyone is checked in to the event and has the time to leave their coats at the coat check before the opening of the Ball.
Do I need to bring my ticket with me?
Yes, you need to have your ticket with you. Please make sure that by the time you are at the front of the queue, you have your ticket with QR code ready to present to Mistress Lorraine either in printed form or on the screen of your phone. Please be aware that there is one QR code per ticket, not per order. We can not let you in if you do not have your ticket with you.
Can single males attend the event?
Yes, single males are welcome to attend the event. The Femdom Ball is a fantastic opportunity to meet Fabulous Dominant Women from around the world. You may also enquire with the event organisers about sponsoring one of our Female guests and serving Her on the night of the event.
Can single females attend the event?
Single Females are more than welcome to attend the event. The Femdom Ball is about celebrating Women. We do not need men in tow to be a Dominant Woman.
Will there be food?
The Femdom Ball does not include a sit down meal. However, food in the form of divine little modern European canapes will be served throughout the night. These are quite light bites, therefore we do recommend a light dinner before attending.
Will there be an open bar?
The organisers of the Femdom Ball aim to provide all the Female patrons a glass of champagne upon arrival. Any other drinks can be purchased at the bar.
Can slaves have a drink?
Slaves are not permitted to drink anything for the first 2 hours of the event. After this time, they can buy drinks at the bar ONLY if permitted to do so by their owner, and ONLY by the bar. Slaves are prohibited from taking their drinks into the main room or the playroom.
I identify as non gender binary. Can I attend the Femdom Ball?
The Femdom Ball aims to be an inclusive event. However, due to it being a celebration of Female Supremacy, there is a degree cis-gender identification at play. Therefore, we ask that all attending dominants either be or identify as a woman and dress accordingly. Slaves and submissives of all gender identifications are welcome at the event.
What should I wear to the Femdom Ball?
Read our Dress Code guide here : #dresscode
Can dominant men attend the Femdom Ball?
Dominant men are welcome to attend the Femdom ball, however we are a Female Supremacy focused event, and we ask that any attending dominant male keep that in mind and follow the rules and dress code for submissives and slaves. We promise we won’t tell anyone 😉
Can I take my own photos?
The taking of photographs by patrons of the Femdom Ball is strictly prohibited. We have to respect all guest some ends up on selfies without consent then we have to deal with such trust breach. This year we are setting up a dedicated are for selfies.
Will a play area be provided?
Not during the Femdom Ball itself. The playroom will be available at the After Party, equipped with dungeon furniture for your enjoyment. Guests are encouraged to bring their own toys, as none will be provided. You may also change into fetish clothing for the After Party to fully embrace the atmosphere.
Will there be an after party?
Yes there will be ticket are now available Buy Tickets Here
Will food will be served at the after Party ?
Yes. All After Party tickets include food for every patron. No additional package is required — dining is part of the experience for all guests.
I am coming to the ball with a group of friends. Can we request to be sat together?
We get a lot of requests from friends wanting to be seated together. Due to the nature of the event, we do get a lot of single guests and ladies attending from all around the world. Our aim is to build bridges in the Femdom world and connect amazing women with other amazing women. As such, we like to seat guests in a way such as to encourage the creation of new friendships.
What are the rules that slaves and submissives must abide by?
- Slaves and submissives are not allowed to partake of the food at the event unless specifically fed a piece by their Mistress.
- Slaves and submissives are not allowed to partake of the champagne or wine being served to the Ladies at the event. They may purchase themselves drinks at the bar.
- Slaves and submissives must wear a hood for the first hour of the event (sissies and TVs excluded) and stand around the edges to allow the Female guests to mingle over champagne.
- Slaves and submissives are forbidden from sitting on chairs or benches. Only the floor can act as a seat for them. To clarify , older and disable submissive may sit behind their Goddess providing they are not on the way. Permission needs to be seeked.
- Slaves and submissives must obey any safe sane and consensual orders given to them by a dominant Female at the event if unowned.
- Slaves and submissives must always give way to a passing Woman, open doors for Women, and bow or curtsy when introducing themselves to a Female guest.
Does the venue has a cloakroom?
Yes , we do indeed , quite spacious.
Do we need to bring cash ?
Yes. Please consider purchasing raffle tickets to show your support for our wonderful charity. We have fantastic prizes generously provided by our sponsors.
Which Charity are we supporting this Year ?
We will support www.Sahlondon.org Please visit their website.
I do not show my face , can i still be on the photos ?
Why should you sponsor a raffle ticket at the Femdom Ball?
You’ll have the opportunity to showcase your business to over 300 attendees at the event, as well as our clients on social media. We’ll promote you on our Twitter and Instagram accounts. Learn more on our Sponsor Page
Do you recommend a hotel for Femdom Ball attendees?
Yes. Madame Caramel has secured a partnership with a prestigious 5-star hotel in Shoreditch, offering guests an exclusive 20% discount with breakfast included. This benefit is reserved for confirmed attendees — proof of attendance is required.
For booking details, please contact: contact@madamecaramel.com.
is there any Airbnb dungeons to hire for sessions or vacation
Yes. For those seeking a unique and immersive experience, there are several BDSM-friendly dungeon rentals in London available for both short sessions and extended stays. You can explore a curated selection of private dungeons through BDSM Holiday’s London listings.
These discreet accommodations combine privacy, comfort, and fully equipped play spaces — ideal for couples or individuals looking to extend their Femdom experience beyond the Ball.
Is there a special rule for male attendees?
Yes. All men attending the Femdom Ball must learn and honor the official mantra:
“With respect, obedience, and love, I serve and worship the Woman who guides my life.” — Femdom Ball Mantra
Can we go fetish or kinky shopping during the Femdom Ball weekend?
Yes. As part of the official program, there will be a Kinky Shopping evening on 3rd October at 6:30pm at Charmskool Shop. Everyone is welcome to attend, and it’s the perfect chance to discover unique fetish fashion and accessories.
Are you organising more events besides the Femdom Ball?
Yes. Madame Caramel curates a calendar of exclusive Femdom gatherings beyond the Ball:
Femdom Retreats
You can explore full details and secure your place on the official Retreats page.
Exclusive Comfort for Our Guests
Enjoy 20% Off Your Stay with Our Hotel Partner
We’re excited to share that we’ve partnered with a hotel offering a 20% discount for single or double occupancy. For more details, please reach out to the Madame Caramel team at contact@madamecaramel.com.
We kindly ask that you respect everyone’s privacy.
Special Guest Discount
Benefit from a 20% reduction on single or double occupancy exclusively for Femdom Ball attendees, Breakfast included.
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